Dr. Judith Orloff discusses the difference between LOVE and LUST and how you can tell which you are in. Some things to note?
Signs of LUST:
- You’re totally focused on a person’s looks and body.
- You’re interested in having sex, but not in having conversations.
- You’d rather keep the relationship on a fantasy level, not discuss real feelings.
- You want to leave soon after sex rather than cuddling or breakfast the next morning.
- You are lovers, but not friends.
Signs of LOVE:
- You want to spend quality time together other than sex.
- You get lost in conversations and forget about the hours passing.
- You want to honestly listen to each other’s feelings, make each other happy.
- He or she motivates you to be a better person.
- You want to get to meet his or her family and friends.
See http://www.huffingtonpost.com/judith-orloff-md/lust-love-difference_b_876162.html for much more on the subject.
Of course, Eroticatrance techniques can be used to enhance consensual love or lust . . . or more.
Those of you interested in distance learning on this and related issues regarding erotic hypnosis can check out our Eroticatrance DVD set at http://www.eroticatrance.com. Or, if you wish to have everything you need to go from basic introductory core hypnosis skills through the eroticatrance and advanced ecstatic engineering, then check out the high value special price for our Ultimate Pleasure Hypnosis DVD course package at http://www.eroticatrance.com/package.html. Seriously, the Ultimate Pleasure Hypnosis package is the highest value you will find for this material.
Now, I do offer hypnotherapy for individuals or couples who wish to address issues related to sexuality and I’ve taught a number of workshops for couples in Taiwan, Hong Kong, India, the United States, and elsewhere.
We will be in Hong Kong in August if you would like to join a workshop . . . drop us a line. If you’re in Taiwan and would like to experience this sort of thing, drop me a line as well . . . since we live here, we occasionally set up workshops or even comprehensive seminars when enough folks express an interest. Yes, we do private sessions, parties, and shows too.
All the best,
Brian
http://www.briandavidphillips.com
