Posted on the Hypnosis Technique Exchange email list (http://groups.yahoo.com/group/HypnosisTechniqueExchange):
"My wife has only had about 5 or 6 orgasms in her life
and the last one was 3 years ago. What would be the
best way to start with hypnotic orgasm with a woman
that is somewhat unfamiliar with orgasms. I have read
that nonorgasmic women can have orgasms through
hypnosis so I think that there is hope. Also I need
to increase her libido. These are things that she
wants as well. She has had a hysterectomy but since
the mind is where sex and pleasure happen this can
still be done? If anyone can help me please."
My response as follows.
Is the hypnotic orgasm and libido increase her idea or yours? If it's yours
without much input from her then I would suggest other routes to increasing
intimacy and sexual satisfaction with one another. If she's really up for
it, then there are a few routes you can go. If you're thinking of a
therapeutic intervention then the previous suggestion of seeking a neutral
third party therapist might be the appropriate step. However, if this is
more along the lines of a couples' exploration and mutual discovery type
adventure, then there are plenty of ways you can go. If you're having
couples issues that might for some reason be contributing to this thing then
some couples therapy along with playful trance processes might be very
helpful.
First, remember . . . as I've written on the exchange and on my blog (https://briandavidphillips.net/) many many many
times . . . while the hypnotic orgasm is extremely kool, trust me, it is . .
. that is not really what you should be looking at as the endgame.
Increasing libido and enhancing desire are much more useful in the long and
short run. Of course, along the way, learning to surrender to the feeling
of release and orgasm is also pretty neat too.
Since your wife has already experienced orgasms, she is well on her way to
rediscovering the feeling via hypnosis. It's more along the lines or
remembering how to ride a bike that you have ridden before than it is
learning to ride an elephant if you've never even been on a horse, a pony,
or a bike. With hypnosis, she can indeed rediscover those feelings and just
let go and release herself to those feelings again.
Having an hysterectomy can affect some women's sexual desire levels for a
whole slew of reasons, including physical and emotional (the advice to seek therapeutic intervention
sounding more and more sound). However, arousal isn't only about physical
stimulation or hormones pumping through the system. The brain and mind are
wonderful thingies and can indeed go along way in stimulating more than
simply thought. In addition to the hypnotic alternatives, be sure to check out some more mundane alternatives as well . . . such as lingerie dates, romantic enhancement contexts, physical stimulation (reviewing oral techniques and enhancing clitoral stimulation with the tongue and a few deep kisses both above and below can go a long ways), as well as mechanical buddies (there are pleasant beginner's vibrators out there that can do wonders).
As to how you can proceed on the hypnotic front . . . it depends on what your level of commitment
is and your experience. There are a few books on the subject and a number
of past threads at the exchange you can look at (quite a few of our members came to the exchange specifically looking for just those resources so don't be shy about asking for references to them – there are a few posts in my blog that have direct links to a number of the more popular and more powerful scripts). I have a number of
posts in the erotic and sexual hypnosis category of my blog at
https://briandavidphillips.net/hypnosis_erotic_and_sexual which
will give you some solid ideas of what can or can't be achieved (including a
whole bunch of videos in a series of posts over the past couple of months
and more coming). Be sure to check out the upcoming Valentine's video when it posts
on Saturday. It is rather inspirational.
What is your experience level? What is your wife's experience level? What
sort of resources are you looking for? A hypnotist in your area to help?
Courses? (see mine at
http://www.briandavidphillips.com/training/eroshypnos.html as it is
extremely comprehensive and covers all the bases) Books? Videos? Random
free advice from strangers?
Seriously, my upcoming EROTIC HYPNOSIS seminar on May 30-31 – http://www.briandavidphillips.com/training/eroshypnos.html
– really is one of the most comprehensive offerings of this type you will find. It not only includes the basics most folks ask for (the basic erotic hypnosis bits and inductions, the arousal triggers, the orgasm patterns, the posthypnotic play) and the like found in the certification program offered by the Society of Experiential Trance (http://www.trancesociety.org) – yes, genuine official certification in this stuff – but it also goes a whole lot further with some material no one else teaches. Participants will also learn a great many techniques with an erotic twist and
much, much, more. They will also learn how to induce consensual full
body orgasms with a single word and very very much more.
Sign Up Now
EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT
Register before April 1
save NT$2000 off per person
plus bonus package gifts
Email Lorraine NOW!
The seminar is open to beginners through experienced hypnotists, all
we require is that you be at least twenty-one years of age for the
adult seminar and have a genuine curiosity in the subject matter with a
willingness to come in and play. No, there is no nudity in the Erotic Hypnosis
course nor is there anything untoward – as long as you don't consider
inducing consensual orgasms and erotic experiences in others as
untoward. The techniques taught can be applied to a wide range of
situations in a variety of appropriate contexts from therapy to
entertainment to recreational activities between consenting adults.
Anyone
is welcome, couples or singles, male or female, straight or
not-so-straight, with special pricing available for couples and even
more price advantages for groups of three or more.
Sign up NOW and take advantage of one of the most
generous bonus gift programs we have ever prepared – yes, folks who
sign up the earliest end up with bonus gifts that are worth more in
real value than the actual price of the course which is already set for
very high value – not to mention, the most high-value pricing advantage
we have ever offered any of our courses at (for this
very special event). We really want to give you this incredible
opportunity and so we've thrown in everything we can because we know
you won't want to miss this chance, especially knowing the opportunity
will not come this way again. This is a special promotion for this particular one-of-a-kind course presentation on May 30-31, it will not be repeated.
Yes, we have offered this course before and are considering offering it elsewhere, but not in this configuration, not with as much material covered the way this one is set up. Interested persons will not get this opportunity again.
The Early Bird Discount expires on April First
(no foolin') so sign up NOW to take advantage of an incredible price
point and an awesome bonus materials package (inquire about group rates
for even more savings on this very special program).
Go to http://www.briandavidphillips.com/training/eroshypnos.html for more information and email Lorraine right away to reserve your spot in the very special presentation of the Erotic Hypnosis program.
Sign up NOW as this is a limited time offering.
All the best,
Brian
(If you are reading this blog post via a stream, go to https://briandavidphillips.net/ to access the full post with any videos or photos included.)
http://www.briandavidphillips.net/store
See http://www.BrianDavidPhillips.com for details
Brian David Phillips, PhD, CH [brian@briandavidphillips.com]
Hypnotist, Hypnotherapist, Intuitionist, Trance Wizard
President, Society of Experiential Trance
Associate Professor, NCCU, Taipei, Taiwan
1 comment for “Helping a Husband help His Wife experience Hypnotic Orgasms”