A recent bit of research shows that the longer a woman is in a secure relationship, the less she wants sex . . . bad news for sex drive. This could be because of supply and demand and influence (by holding off on sex, it increases the drive in the male) or because women tend to use sex as ways of attracting secure partners so once they’ve got their mate, they no longer feel a need for sex. Whatever the reason, men experience very different sets. Sex remains important to most men men throughout the life of their relationship. Hmmmm . . . wonder what that means . . .