More queries on erotic hypnosis or focused trance for consenting married adults at the Hypnosis Technique Exchange.

My wife and I would like to try some hypnotism to play out some fantasies. Some include…. – at a spoken word….having my wife become totally and completely aroused, – at a spoken word…have her have an uncontrollable orgasm. We are serious, so only serious replys only. Can anyone help us with this?

I would echo the suggestion that you should consider getting David Shade’s book, among others. The Wendi Friesen book has some nice points as well (I wrote one chapter). If you’re a raw beginner, you might want to get that from her with the CD. I also like the Look Into My Eyes and Erotic Focus books. The Shade book has some interesting things in it – pretty straightforward hypnosis with an erotic twist (I bought it twice as I loaned my copy to a friend who conveniently never returned it before leaving the country) . . . although, I find it amusing as to what the very first suggestion was for his girlfriend after taking Mark Cunningham’s hypnosis coures. That certainly was not one of the first things I thought about doing (been there, done that, just not first on the agenda).

The things you’re asking about are really pretty simple. If you browse through the message archives for the Hypnosis Technique Exchange, you will find many of them explicitly discussed. You should also take a look at my lengthy posts on this subject at Life of Brian or go direct to the categories here:

• Erotic and Sexual Hypnosis
• Focused Trance, Hypnosis, Guided Imagery, and the Rest
• Entertainment, Stage, and Performance Hypnosis

Many of the essays specifically link to techniques or scripts found in the archives here. I have also posted some other books you might want to look for in the resources pages.

After you have read through those pieces and begun to experiment with your wife, do let us know how things are progressing and if you have specific questions, we’re more than happy to oblige.

You might also wish to give some of my DRTRC and other MP3s a go at http://www.briandavidphillips.com (in the free downloads sections) as many have found them to be worthwhile trance conditioning pieces (the publicly available material is all vanilla in nature, but the triggers will work fine for the sort of non-vanilla things you’re asking about – my colorful files are not publicly available at this time). Be sure to let me know how they work for you.

If you are in Taipei and would like to participate in a workshop or seminar for consenting adult couples only on building intimacy through erotic focused trancework or if you would like to schedule a private workshop for you and your friends, feel free to contact me at phillips@nccu.edu.tw.

I hope this has been helpful.

Keep us posted.

All the best,
Brian