Hands Free No Touch Orgasm and Thinking-Off

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Well, we’ve crossed this are before . . . actually I have a whole category related to it (http://briandavidphillips.net/category/hypnosis-erotic-and-sexual), but recently on the Hypnosis Technique Exchange (http://groups.yahoo.com/group/HypnosisTechniqueExchange), we’ve had an interesting discussion develop related to the Hands Free No Touch Orgasm.  It was brought up by an elderly gentleman who is not able to physically satisfy his sexual impulses and so would like to scratch that libido itch through the hands free orgasm which he googled and found a number of references to me (if you count posts on the blog, there’s no shocker why).

So, most of this is crossposting my response to the thread on the Hypnosis Technique Exchange with some bits added in for the blog.

To our querant, honestly, I think you’ve gotten some thoughtful feedback here from folks who want to make absolutely certain that you have dotted all your t’s and crossed all your i’s in an effort to ensure that you are approaching this sensibly, responsibly, and in a way that maximizes your effectiveness at creating a meaningful experience for yourself.

In her CNN interview, Barbra Carrellas begins slightly going into the process (http://edition.cnn.com/video/data/2.0/video/showbiz/2010/07/29/behar.think.orgasm.hln.html):

I am assuming it is her that you saw, but my impression is that it is not really anything all that new in that hypnotists and tantra practitioners have been doing that sort of things for at least a few centuries and in the past fifty or so years the hypnotists have been getting very good at their own approaches.  I do have her Urban Tantra book on a shelf in a pile of books that are on my must read soon book so it’s very interesting that you mention her (I received my Amazon package with her book only just a few days ago). For those who want more on her work see http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504763_162-20010883-10391704.html.

It is very nice she’s attracted the interest of neurologists (http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504763_162-20010797-10391704.html) via that show. It is even nicer that reputable scientists have started doing even more. There’s a nice clip at Big Think on this sort of work on Thinking Yourself to Orgasm (http://bigthink.com/ideas/17222):

My brother once told me he saw a demonstration of a no-touch orgasm at a party he attended in New York years ago (it was a bet, a guy bet a young woman US$100 that he could make her orgasm with no touch within ten minutes but only if she agreed to follow his directions . . . he won within five minutes and she happily paid up). My brother asked me if it were really possible – evidently, seeing isn’t always believing – and I said “yes, it’s more than possible” and proceeded to outline what I suspected he probably did and I was correct.

As noted before, Carrellas is getting good press for doing something that many of us have known about and done for years. More power to her. I was particularly interested that she’s got some folks with FMRI equipment interested enough to do work on the folks she’s worked with. This is something I have wanted to do for year. If Masters and Johnson can hook folks up to the machines while their fucking then I would think it would be so much easier to have a hypnotist next to someone being scanned while giving them some suggestions.

In any case, the suggestions to make absolutely certain that your issues are taken care of on the physical end is extremely important. Just knowing that a physical issue has caused ED or the like is not enough, making certain you are receiving appropriate proper treatment is very very important. Certainly, hypnotic work is a wonderful supplement to competent medical care but in my not so very humble opinion, it should never be considered a substitute.

Now, if you are receiving appropriate and competent care then the think off or no touch orgasm is something worth exploring.

I would suggest starting with intensifying erotic response . . . that no-scratch libido needs some exercise so do some mental exercises where you imagine appropriate erotic stimuli and remember and experience the physical sensations you would normally have to them, don’t fret about the actual physical stimulation but concentrate on the emotional and mental recreation of those responses . . . a kiss, a touch, a taste, a smell, and the like.

I strongly agree that while many folks recommend self hypnosis, that you should seek out a competent and experienced hypnotist to teach you how to go into self-hypnosis . . . I know, we tell folks that all hypnosis is self hypnosis but honestly I know my self-hypnosis is always deeper with a competent guide in the driver’s seat. So the answer to your question on whether you should seek out a competent hypnotherapist in your area . . . yes, I believe you should.

Here’s the tricky thing. most very competent hypnotists have no experience in this area although there are a few who are very well versed (I’ve taught classes on the subject and while some of my students are already very experienced – honestly, the class I taught in Los Angeles that was videotaped for my DVD set included a number of folks who were already well-versed in the subject, many of whom one might consider already master practitioners of the material with a few who were completely new). It has been my experience that the folks who are very good at this sort of thing tend to have started in recreational use for personal enjoyment with appropriate partners and then found ways to apply that knowledge and experience with clients like yourself, although a few started out in therapeutic training.

You may have to vette potential therapists for their experience in this material before moving forward. There are some very competent hypnotists who are honestly just uncomfortable working with areas of sexual response so rather than working with such folks I’d give ’em a miss. Likewise, I would steer clear of someone who is really into recreational sexual hypnosis but not experienced in therapeutic sessions. That means you may need to ask questions and discuss things. John Strohn mentioned he had feelers out (he’s not likely to steer you wrong in this regard) and there may be someone else here with appropriate contacts who can steer you in the right direction although a google search and a phone call with appropriate questions can usually get you started.

I would strongly suggest that as you research this area and prepare for you in-person session with a competent hypnotist that you prep yourself by listening to trance training CDs or MP3s . . . this may teach you a bit in terms of what to expect (to some degree) but also help you learn to relax a bit and let go of some of that stress. I have some free deep trance training MP3s on my webpages or you can feel free to purchase my CDs . . . I certainly don’t mind selling product . . . or, try someone else’s material out. The point being to give it a go and see how you feel . . . for the experience, without assuming that the experience with the CD will be exactly the same as the in person session, although I would suspect that if the CD is better than the in-person session one really needs to consider switching hypnotists.

On my blog, at http://briandavidphillips.net I do have an entire category on erotic and sexual hypnosis which you can check to see what sort of information there might be of use to you. BTW, others will note that my blog address has changed. I am leaving typepad and now have my own hosted blog site so change your links.

I hope this has been helpful.

In response to a statement by one exchange member that he had witnessed a spontaneous mental orgasm by a girlfriend in high school, one participant in the discussion pointed out she suspected it would be a lot easier for a teenager with raging hormones to experience one than a middle-aged woman.

I would venture to guess that she is generally correct. This doesn’t preclude spontaneous orgasms from happening . . . I’ve been the unintended guide of a few of the beasties and one was with a woman well past middle-aged who volunteered to do a simple trance process in front of an audience of around sixty people in a country that with what can easily be considered well beyond conservative (the UK embassy actually has pamphlets for expats warning them against kissing in public or holding hands or hugging persons of the opposite sex). I did not mean for her to go in that direction and did not notice my tonality being particularly sensual but her response was immediate and obvious. I would like to think that I’m just the sort of person women spontaneously orgasm around, but despite the overwhelming desire of my ego on this matter my critical faculty tells me that there’s a bit more too it than that and in most cases such things happen because the woman or man takes something to the table with them that needs expressing (yes, I’ve had it happen with men as well). After it happened a few times at various events, I learned to watch my tonality. Of course, if I want it to happen, I obviously know to watch my tonality and other context cues as well.

Of course, since our querant is not asking about spontaneous orgasms but an intentional experience he has a much easier rode to travel than the whole sit around repressing your sexuality while simultaneously surrounding yourself in sexual trigger sensations but don’t let yourself respond until your imagination is just so overwhelmed that your unconscious forces a response approach. Although, that approach does indeed work for some folks.

When I was at university, I learned that I could trigger “romantic” responses in women in the way I held them and looked into their eyes so that when I brought them in for a kiss, their entire body would melt, often triggering very powerful sexual arousal and not a few spontaneous orgasms (I wish I’d known as much about NLP and waking suggestion back then as I do now). I suppose folks could also try that approach . . . someone mentioned an eager nineteen-year-old eliciting sexual responses (although I don’t think one would have to specifically target that age range . . . my experience has been that plenty of women over fifty are healthy, happy, and perfectly competent at eliciting sexual responses . . . no age range is off limits as long as its an appropriate range and relationship).

Those with an interest might look into some of the erotic response meditations used by folks who practice what they call energy orgasms . . . some folks into tantra practice it . . . although these can be achieved with or without an actual energy model via suggestion alone.  The think-off above is based upon breath and energy, breathing with a tie-in of visualizing or imagining erotic energy flowing through one, something I have taught variants of to quite a few folks over the years.  Yes, it may seem esoteric but it most certainly is not rocket science or difficult for someone with time, energy, and focus to learn.

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