This month’s challenge theme at the Hypnosis Technique Exchange is Using Hypnosis to Increase Erotic Sensitivity and Response. Given some recent discussion in that forum, I thought I’d play with something a little off-the-beaten-path a bit and created something a long the lines of what I call Nipple Buttons
This is not so much a script but an idea for a process inspired by and in response to some very interesting ideas already brought up by others. It’s neither terribly original nor complicated. It is also not particularly difficult. The idea is simplicity. This is intended for consenting adults only. If you aren’t an adult, give it a miss. If you don’t have a fully consenting partner, then piss off.
I was asked recently about whether NLP embedded commands and presuppositions were useful in creating a sensory link within trancework that would help a woman become erotically aroused via sensations in her nipples. This was in part as part of a response to a suggestion that the hypnotist doesn’t need to speak all the time and that for this sort of therapy or recreational use of trance silence can be very worthwhile and helpful in allowing a woman to respond in her own way.
In the end, it doesn’t really matter what anyone else thinks. What matters is what you think is appropriate for you and your subject in the context of how what where and why you’re running the process.
While NLP can be used with great art . . . and I am a firm believer in using presuppositions and embedded commands and the like . . . I don’t think the point needs NLP in the execution though . . . albeit, it is nicely done and quite a lot of fun to play with. Won’t hurt, but isn’t required. As long as you have imaginative involvement, bypass of the critical factor of the mind, rapport, and consent . . . then ANYTHING can and will achieve this effect. The words or not are there merely to guide the experience.
You can do it long and slow with a lot of fancy language that is intended to increase the imaginative involvment and deepen the experience while specifically guiding the states or you can do it short fast and wham bam tweak yer nipples maam if that is appropriate to for the subject.
You don’t need to keep running patter but you can, in so far as the patter helps and does not distract. If you lead to fast or too far before the subject is ready or if your patter slows things down and the subject ends up having to stop and wait then the patter does less good than simple silence.
One nice thing about silence, when appropriately used, is that it allows the subject to create her own experience and to enjoy that experience with no "wrong" answer.
Here’s a simple enough process. It presupposes you are an experienced hypnotist (if not, get some proper training and experience – if you are in Taipei, then contact me for private lessons or workshops or the like), you are an adult working with another adult, and that you are in a consensual relationship. This is an overt directed process, there is nothing covert about it. I also assumes the subject is a woman (the hypnotist can be a man or a woman in so far as this piece goes) but you can modify it easily enough for the subject to be a man (although in such a case you don’t really need the "nipple" suggestions and can just go right to it with a "penis button" per se. In any case, here’s the basic process:
1. Hypnotic contract and presuppositions. Let your partner know that you’re going to hypnotize her and give her the suggestion that her nipples become very sensitive and erotically charged and ask whether that sounds like fun to her and whether she’d like to give it a go. When she says she’s up for it, then you have the beginnings of a good hypnotic contract. This also sets up the idea that the process is going to work (you’re not saying you’d like to try to do this, you are stating that you will do this and she is agreeing to it working).
2. Induction time. Whatever works best for you. Depending upon whether I’ve worked with the person before, I use various inductions. If I’ve never worked with someone, I will probably use an Elman. Nice strong, good set and I love the built in tests. Lately, I’ve been playing about with a nice induction by Tom Silver from his rapid inductions DVD which is rather nifty (the one that uses the hands-together-magnet suggestibility test very well as a conversion into an induction). If I’ve worked with the person before then I’ve already got a post-hypnotic reinduction signal which I’ll employ or if I know the person’s an experienced trance subject who I haven’t worked with then I’ll go witht he hand-drop or the finger-thumb or some other instant or rapid induction with the Elman eye lock and numbers as a deepener.
3. Deepen and establish erotic response within the imaginative involvement. Use deepeners and attach erotic response suggestions to them. "Imagine with each gentle breath your body becomes more and more relaxed as you begin to notice a melting feeling washing over you that sends wave after wave of sensual pleasure through your body" or some such thing or it could be as simple as "with each breath out, your body becomes hotter and more aroused, with each breath in you feel that sexual feeling entering you and melting within you deeper and deeper" or even just "as you breathe and melt you become more and more hot sexy and aroused" or "breathe, relax, and get hotter now" ow whatever. It doesn’t matter exactly what you say as long as you are establishing an imaginative involvment hooked into the erotic response. This step is optional but fun.
4. Establish somnambulism. I want to make certain I’ve got strong imaginative involvement usually characterized as somnambulism (the bypass of the critical factor of the conscious mind) so I will suggest it. I will usually do this with number amnesia. In the Elman induction there is already a built-in test for amnesia but I want something more compounded and a bit more powerful in effect for most folks. "In a moment, I will have you open your eyes and when I do I will ask you to count from one to ten and when you do the number seven is gone from your memory so that no matter how hard you try you cannot say the number seven it is gone and you cannot say it. I will ask you to count from one to ten and you will count in this way one two three four five six eight nine ten." Nod your head if you understand. Repeat the suggestions. Then, eyes open (NOT fully awake). Ask her to count her fingers. If you have amnesia or blockage for the number seven then you’re gold. Eyes closed and deepen and move on. If not, then eyes closed deepen and compound repeat and compound suggestions until you get it or another test of equal or greater value. Once you have this step then whatever you do will work fine. You’ve basically established uncritical imaginative response and are good to go. You can play with the process to make it long or just give a quickie suggestion that fires everything right away . . . it really depends upon what you’re doing, the context, and whether you’re playing or working.
5. Fire off the suggestions for erotic response. Let your body become more and more sexually excited right now. Let the feelings grow. Everywhere on your body is erotically charged. Feel your body open up and fill with erotic sensual feelings. Hotter and hotter and hotter. Wet hot and excited. Building and building with each number hotter and hotter. Pausing between each number. One two three four five fire fire fire. For the next few moments let your body become even hotter until you are so hot, you cannot stand it, you must find release. When you are that hot, burning fire, lift your hand and say "I am ready" or whatever. Shut up. Watch and listen. When you have the signal, repeat and compound.
6. Set the nipple suggestion. When she has given the signal in the previous step, do the setup. Now that you’re really burning, notice that your nipples are becoming more responsive and charged. Notice a hidden mind wire going from your nipples to your clitoris. Notice that as your body becomes more aroused then your nipples become more sensitive, the more sensitive your nipples become, the more aroused your body becomes, as your clitoris begins to hum and vibrate your nipples become more sensitive, the more sensitive your nipples become, the more your clitoris hums and vibrates, etc. Repeat and compound. As I count, each number makes your nipples even more wildly sensitive. Pausing between each number. One two three four five . . . burning hotter fire fire fire. For the next few moments let your body become even hotter as your nipples become even more sensitive with that wonderful mind wire connected to your clitoris burning with hot wet sexual fire until you are so hot, you cannot stand it, you must find release. When you are that hot, burning fire, lift your hand and say "I am ready" or whatever. Shut up. Watch and listen. When you have the signal, repeat and compound.
7. Now for the fun part (as if the rest isn’t fun). Your body burning even hotter now. As your body really burns with a hot sexual fire right now, I want you to know that I have in my hand a button that is connected to your nipples which is connected by that wonderful hot sexual mind wire to your clitoris. Whenever you see me push on this button, your nipples will explode with pleasure and your clitories with hum and vibrate a thousand times more powerfully each time. Any time I touch, kiss, lick, your nipples, the feeling is intesely sexual, sending a hot wet heat into your clitoris and deep melting deep inside your body with a need, desire, burning fire. Just thinking about how sensitive your nipples are right now, makes them burn and your clitoris hum and vibrate. Whenever I push the button, your entire body shakes and explodes from your nipples to your clitoris to your vagina to your breasts to your anus to your mind as your entire body explodes into an earthshattering climax each and every time I push the nipple button in my hand. As I count, feel your mind wife connecting even more powerfully from your clitoris to your nipples to the nipple button, your body burning even hotter with a red hot sexual fire with each number more powerful. Pause between each number. One two three four five. Compound, repeat, compound. Build the response. Now open your eyes and look at my hand where I’m holding the nipple button and let yourself feel even hotter.
8. Time to play. Hold your hand up fisted with your thumb up. Show the thumb as if over a button (that isn’t there but is felt). Whenever I push the button, your entire body shakes and explodes from your nipples to your clitoris to your vagina to your breasts to your anus to your mind as your entire body explodes into an earthshattering climax each and every time I push the nipple button in my hand. Now, EXPLODE (mime pushing the button). When she climaxes, make sure she sees you take your thumb up off the button and say "and relax" . . . now, EXPLODE (do it again) . . . and relax (thumb up) . . . compound and repeat and compound until she’s obviously had enough (respect her bounds and limits).
9. Fry it or wash it away. Either give suggestions for this to be a permanent suggestion (IF SHE WISHES IT) or wash it all away.
10. Emerging technique. I use a count up with a rider suggestion for feeling wonderful.
Simple enough process, not too complicated but a lot of fun. A bit of it is not needed, but I like to play with it anyway. When delivering the patter, play with it.
I hope this has been helpful.
All the best,